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[ljgeoff]

via limnrixto this post.

polyamory and jealousy... Why the heck aren't I jealous? I mean, it's not like I *want* to be jealous, it's just that it feels... odd to be so odd. I was checking with myself. Hmmm, nope. I don't feel jealous of Dawn that she gets to be with Mike, I don't feel possessive of Mike, that he's with someone else. Ditto with Len. I feel kinda sad, but, damn, I don't even feel especially envious today. I wonder if I just have everything tamped down? Hmm.

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[limnrix.livejournal.com]

I find I'm not jealous when I can rely on a primary partner, and I wonder if polyamory mostly hurts the occasional single person that gets hooked into it part-willingly.

[ljgeoff.livejournal.com]

I think with me it has a lot to do with not being very territorial. I simply don't have very much "mine, not yours" in me.