I have no idea how other people negotiate and communicate about their poly relationship issues. This is how Mike and I did it ( in an IM conversation this morning: )
Last night, coming home from Len's and buoyed up by his loving, I decided to go and get things over with Keith. He plays pool Wednesday nights and his van was there at Pasquali's, so, taking a deep breath, I parked, scurried across the frozen parking lot and ( pushed open the door. )